Saturday, February 2, 2008

States that,


She needs caring(showing interest in her feelings and heartfelt concern for her well-being), He needs trust(having a positive belief in her man's abilities and intentions).


She needs understanding(listens without judgement but with empathy to her feelings), He needs acceptance(lovingly recieves a man without trying to change him).


She needs respect acknowledges her rights, wishes, and needs), He needs appreciation(acknowledges his efforts and behaviour).


She needs devotion(commits himseld to supporting and fulfilling her), He needs admiration(admiring your man of cause, to see him with wonder, delight, and pleased approval).


She needs validation(means agreeing with her view,even when you have a different view), He needs approval(don't quite understand).


She needs reassurance(repeatedly showing his care and is devoted), He needs encouragement.



Hmm there are quite alot of stuff. Some which i think are really making sense. For example,
- Why men like to hide in their own caves.
- Men are like rubber band. Pulling away then coming back and pulling away again but only to this far.
- Why women are like waves. Mood swing easily.

oh oh.. there's this. 25 ways to scored big with venus

1) Surprise her with flowers.

2) Resist the temptation to solve her problems.

3) When you are going to be late, call her.

4) Don't channel surf when she's watching TV with you.

5) Take short romantic getaways.

6) Wash her car.

7) Get in bed at the same time.

8) Pay more attention to her that others in public.

9) Tell her how much you missed her when you were away.

10) Treat her the way you did when you first met.

11) Never forget her birthday.

12) When holding hands, don't let your hand go limp.

13) Compliment her new look.

14) When seeing her, give her a hug before doing anything else.

15) Plan a date several days in advance.

16) Offer to help her when she's tired.

17) Practice listening and ask questions.

18) Suggest a new restaurant.

19) Open the door for her.

20) Take her side when she's upset with someone.

21) Whenever you need to "pull away," let her know that you will be back.

22) Ask her how she is feeling.

23) When listening make eye contact.

24) Bring her presents like a small box of candy or perfume.

25) Give her a kiss and say good-bye when you leave.

So.. How many have you done?


Hmm.. 25 ways to score big on MARS.
Later ok?.. hands tired liao. =PpP

Saturday, February 02, 2008